Come fully alive.
Together.
Many relationships are built on the 50/50 compromise:
“If I sacrifice these parts of myself, and you sacrifice those parts of yourself, we can make our relationship work.”
50/50 relationships tend to do exactly that – they “work.” But when compromise becomes the default, we can lose touch with what drew us into relationship: desire, growth, curiosity, connection, and the dream of becoming more together than we can be on our own.
A 100/100 relationship is built on a different belief: “If we both bring all of ourselves - our authentic desires and vulnerabilities - our relationship can become the place we go to come fully alive.”
You might be in 50/50 if…
You love each other…
and, your time together is more predictable than passionate
You know each other so well…
that you’ve stopped exploring the mystery of who you could become
You get along…
and, there are a few core conflicts that you consistently avoid
You’re attracted to each other…
and, you don’t feel the same sparks you used to
You’re committed to your future together…
and, the logistics tend to crowd out the dreams
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If this sounds familiar, we want you to know:
Your relationship isn’t broken – but it might be plateaued.
And a plateau is an incredibly safe and stable foundation from which to explore, expand, and reach for the stars.
Welcome. We’re so glad you’re here.
We’re Paul and Liz Cohen – Somatic Psychotherapists, Mindfulness Practitioners, and partners ourselves for nearly 20 years.
We help couples move from 50/50 to 100/100 – as we have (and continue to) ourselves.
We are honored to facilitate the practices that have made the greatest difference for us and our clients. In every coaching conversation and retreat, we bring reverence for the magic that can happen when two people bring their whole selves into relationship.
We help people build relationships that feel:
✺ Safe
You feel safe bringing your whole self into your relationship.
✧ Strong
You welcome difficult conversations because you know you can navigate them, and that they will deepen connection.
☼ Joyful
You turn to your partner for play, fun, and adventure.
≋ Sensual
You experience touch as a source of comfort, aliveness, and connection.
△ Passionate
Your sex life is an expression of the passion and joy that fill your relationship.
∞ Expansive
You wake up each day moving toward a shared vision for the life you’re co-creating.